Swinging Do's and Don'ts

Swinging means different things to different men, women and couples. Swinging is a recreational activity for many people and there are a few do’s and don’ts to abide to.

• Be honest and let your partner know what you want and your fantasies.
• Don’t be someone else for the sake of your partner.
• Make sure you know what your desires are.
• Make sure you always use protection.
• Do try new things that are within your limits
• Don’t be rushed by your partner, contact or anyone else. Go with your own flow.
• Don’t ignore people’s mail, even if you don’t want to meet. A simple no thanks will suffice!
• Make sure you know what to expect.
• Make sure you’re having fun. If you’re not, it’s not for you.
• Don’t be rude. Reply even to say thanks, but no thanks.
• Don’t lie about your size, age, looks or anything else.
• Don’t try and push anyone else’s limits – it could turn nasty!
• Don't cheat on your partner. Although this is aimed at men predominantly, there are women who do this too.
• If ever in doubt, bail out!